Sunday 12 April 2009

Ask to ur husband


1. Let him do “his things”. If he wants to do some of the house keeping, let him do it. If you refuse this and say that you want to take care of them, he will never do something in the house. Even if you are not happy with the things he has done in the house, praise him and stimulate him to do it also next time. You will find the suitable moments to remediate the “problems”. 2. Ask him to help you. Even if he says, as most do, that he doesn’t know what to do, explain him patiently and if it is possible monitories him. On the contrary, he will either get nervous, or he will give up and you will have to continue the job. 3. Tell him to bring you flowers. When your husband is out, it’s the better way to ask him to buy your favorite flowers. If you do this several times, you will be very surprised to see that, next time, he will bring you flowers from his initiative. 4. Help him without him to know it. Mark down in his mobile phone some special days such as your birthday, your wedding anniversary day but also important days for his mother. Set the phone alarm so that it remembers him these important events two-three days before. 5. Be friend with your mother in law. If your husband has a sister, try to be very friendly with her too. They are your allied in any problems you might have with him. 6. Try to mediate a good relationship between your husband and your parents. Usually, a good relationship between son in law and mother in law is easier to be obtained than one between you and your mother-in-law. If you can, try to help them have a better relationship as it will be of use for both of you, in the future. 7. No matter how busy you are, try to convince him make time for some romantic moments shared only in two. If these moments will be pleasant for both of you, he will always have a positive response regarding your ideas for some relaxing moments. 8. Encourage him. Appreciate his efforts both at work and at home, no matter if some times you might exaggerate. The secret is that men are reserved in accepting praises they think they don’t deserve so that they will try to do things better next time.

Why do we love men


Why are we happy that men exist? Why do we need them? We are tempted many times to say that we don’t need men but let’s try to remember, girls, why do we want him. Here is a list with reasons which will answer to our question “Why do we love men“?

• Because they know how make a separation between emotional problems and rational ones.
• Because they don’t get frightened and they always save us from that huge spider on the wall.
• Because you can see how happy they become when they are winners in a game they played all evening.
• Because without doing sport, they get even fatter than us, girls.
• Because they offer us their coat when we are freezing.
• Because they carefully supervise how much money we spend.
• Because they open the door in front of us and they carry our bags full with new bought clothes.
• Because they always protect us.
• Because we can call them when we have problems with our car.
• Because their tummy turns bigger after drinking a beer.
• Because men are best cookers in the world although your lover doesn’t know to cook.
• Because they say you look well even when you don’t.
• Because they don’t get upset because you have spent the last money on a pair of shoes.
• Because they accept to go at shopping with us, even if we spend a whole day doing this.
• Because they succeed in making us feel happy day by day.
• Because they exist and without them our life will be too monotonous

Fashion tips


Do you want to be always sexy and in fashion? Would you like to attract everyone’s looks without having a vulgar look? Here are some tips in order to solve any possible confusion related to the fashion topic.

• Wear what you like and what suits you;
• Wear a skin colour bra under a white blouse;
• Wear horizontal stripes if you have narrow shoulders, small breasts and narrow hips. You can also wear horizontal stripes on the narrow parts of your body if you want to divert attention from a big bust or hips;
• Try to show your physical qualities and hide the defects;
• Wear artificial fur because the natural one is old- fashioned;
• Use a natural make-up during the day;
• Wear low size trousers if you have a big posterior. Those trousers designed with a high size will stress this little defect;
• Wear the appropriate size because a small t-shirt or bra won’t give you a sexy look but an unpleasant appearance;
• Don’t wear long skirts with large t-shirts. This combination will make you look fatter;
• Don’t let your lingerie out of the trousers; it will give you an unpleasant, vulgar look;
• Don’t use black lipstick;
• Don’t exaggerate in using all kind of accessories as, for example, a ring on every finger;
• Don’t mix up styles. For example, don’t wear sport accessories with an elegant outfit, or any other weird combination.

How to dress at work?


If your style is sexy more than stylish you might have some problems at work. Wearing a sexy outfit at work is seen as an inadequate behavior for any woman. For example women with leading positions are looked at as being less intelligent and competent. This perception is not valid when it comes to secretaries, for example. Women wearing clothes which show too much are looked at as using their sexuality in order to be promoted. Let’s see some suggestions in order to dress suitable at work.

Blouses should cover shoulders, the back and the abdomen. Avoid wearing transparent materials and stretched clothes.

Skirts can be a hand above the knee, not at all shorter. Skirts having the “A” shape and conic skirts are classic stylish options although you can also wear floral prints skirts.

When it comes to trousers, they must be simple, classic colors. Be careful how stretched and avoid those which show your lingerie.

Many banks interdict shoes which reveal foot nails. In this case, you should choose pumps or little hills shoes.

What is too sexy to wear at work?
Blouses which show too much skin such as those showing your abdomen or a decolletage are not suited for work. If you want to wear them anyway try using a jacket or a bolero.

You shouldn’t wear transparent or glossy clothes at work. Exposing your underwear is totally unsuitable. Short skirts, naked back dresses or stiletto shoes can’t be worn at work.

How to be a cool colleague?


You surely spend much more time at your job than at home. In this case you should make your life easier and respect the existent rules. It isn’t important that you work perfect with the clients, if your colleagues can’t stand you. Let’s see some tips which will help you be considered a “cool” colleague.

Don’t steal things
We ale borrow pens or pencils but don’t forget to give it back. There is nothing more annoying than seeing that things are missing from your desk.

Behave at work as you behave at home
Don’t do mess in public places. Keep the toilet and kitchen hygienic.

Don’t scream and don’t attack your colleagues no matter how irritating they are. We all lived situations when we felt angry on some of our colleagues. Try to abstain yourself from expressing your feelings. It works if you want to. You must be clever, intelligent.

Face to face
No matter how hard it may be, you must communicate directly, face to face. You can be seen by others and the communication is much clear.

Be trustable
If someone told you a secret and you told it the next moment to others, don’t expect to be trusted from now on. People easily lose confidence and you can win it hard afterwards.

Don’t expect the work to be done by your colleagues
The work week ends Friday afternoon, not Thursday afternoon.

Remember: if you gossip and stab someone at the back, that person will think that you do the same with anyone. Nobody likes bad persons who gossip a lot.

Admit others success with humor and avoid persons who make you shiver. You don’t have to be friend with them. Be just polite.

Try using these tips and you will surely be considered the best colleague ever.

Pedicure


Purpose of pedicure

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To keep the feet in good condition and to make the skin soft and smooth.
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It improves blood circulation, nourishes the skin and the leg and foot muscles
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It discourages foot ailments.

Implements

1.

Nail cutter
2.

Nail filer
3.

Cuticle cutter
4.

Cuticle pusher
5.

Nail brush
6.

Orange stick
7.

Pumice stone
8.

Foot scrapper
9.

Two basins large enough for foot bath

Materials

1.

Acetone
2.

Liquid soap or shampoo
3.

Luke warm water
4.

Antiseptic lotion
5.

Oil or cream
6.

Nail polish
7.

Foot powder
8.

Hydrogen peroxide

Procedure

1.

Remove the old nail polish using acetone with lotion
2.

File the nails and cut the nails if necessary.
3.

Place both the feet in Luke warm water containing liquid soap and hydrogen peroxide.
4.

Clean the foot using nail brush, foot scrapper and pumice stone.
5.

Remove the foot from the basin and clean thoroughly using a soft towel.
6.

With a cotton dipped in Antiseptic lotion and with the help of an orange stick apply the lotion under the free edge of each nail
7.

Buff the cuticle to soften the cuticle
8.

Loosen the cuticle back gently
9.

Massage the legs for five minutes
10.

Apply the first coat of nail polish and allow it to dry and then apply the second coat