Ask to ur husband

1. Let him do “his things”. If he wants to do some of the house keeping, let him do it. If you refuse this and say that you want to take care of them, he will never do something in the house. Even if you are not happy with the things he has done in the house, praise him and stimulate him to do it also next time. You will find the suitable moments to remediate the “problems”. 2. Ask him to help you. Even if he says, as most do, that he doesn’t know what to do, explain him patiently and if it is possible monitories him. On the contrary, he will either get nervous, or he will give up and you will have to continue the job. 3. Tell him to bring you flowers. When your husband is out, it’s the better way to ask him to buy your favorite flowers. If you do this several times, you will be very surprised to see that, next time, he will bring you flowers from his initiative. 4. Help him without him to know it. Mark down in his mobile phone some special days such as your birthday, your wedding anniversary day but also important days for his mother. Set the phone alarm so that it remembers him these important events two-three days before. 5. Be friend with your mother in law. If your husband has a sister, try to be very friendly with her too. They are your allied in any problems you might have with him. 6. Try to mediate a good relationship between your husband and your parents. Usually, a good relationship between son in law and mother in law is easier to be obtained than one between you and your mother-in-law. If you can, try to help them have a better relationship as it will be of use for both of you, in the future. 7. No matter how busy you are, try to convince him make time for some romantic moments shared only in two. If these moments will be pleasant for both of you, he will always have a positive response regarding your ideas for some relaxing moments. 8. Encourage him. Appreciate his efforts both at work and at home, no matter if some times you might exaggerate. The secret is that men are reserved in accepting praises they think they don’t deserve so that they will try to do things better next time.